Life is hard. Around every corner, there is another hurdle. What we make of the sitsuation is what defines us.
Do we live in the past, beating ourselves, and or others for our choices, failures or successes?
Why not just leave the past there. Accept it. It happened, and go on. I've had this conversation more more than a few people. Have read similar thoughts and ideas from friends who are struggling with issues.
I have to say that looking back at all my history there are very few things I would change. Most of my decisions I would let stand. The ones that I had hurt someone, physically, mentally or emotionally I would change. But being that we cannot change history, I have adopted the mind set of not repeating those actions. Am I perfect. not at all. But, I am better than I was.
High School has been in the fore front of my mind here lately. Unfortunately a High School friend is dealing with a very devistating and tragic event. The social networks have brought us all back into eachothers lives after so many years. Where typically before we would get this news at the next class reunion. To know immediately that grief and shock so heavy being bourne by a person known in younger days. I must applaud those classmates who were able to be there in person.
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